Conquering a woman’s heart is for many men more or less some kind of minefield. Certainly, women contain every ingredient needed for making a Molotov Cocktail, and the key is to handle them gentle enough not to set them off.
Applying to animals and humans alike, instincts gave women the privilege of picking while men the “honor” of doing their best to convince them that they are the best choice possible. Although it might not seem such an easy job, it comes with our own nature. More than that, as the Bible says, women were created from and for men.
Don’t let yourselves fooled by all those saying that they have the secrets needed to get any woman and become modern Don Juans. The only secret I can think of is being yourself. The rest is, believe it or not, pure and simple human psychology.
Just to give you an idea of how simple it can actually be, I’ll just list a few of the things needed for the “big conquest”. Before attempting anything, every man should keep in mind that the times when males stood up on a heap of dirt and showcased their powers are long gone. You don’t have to prove her anything! Instead, make her want to discover your qualities.
PATIENCE. This is not a hit-and-run thing and showing some patience tells the woman that you could represent more than just a waste of time. Forcing a woman into something she does not want to do is a major mistake that will most likely cause irreparable damage to the relationship.
HUMOR. Aside from the relaxed atmosphere they create, funny guys inspire optimism and a positive attitude. After all, do you like a woman that always complains about something?
WITS. Without some activity in your brain, she could take off before you know it. Nevertheless, a savant attitude will most likely make her feel bad and underestimated. Keep in mind that women fight for equality and never try to show her what an undiscovered genius you are. After a couple of minutes of relaxed, humorous, and subtly witty chat she will figure you out by herself.
SENSITIVENESS. Despite some opinions, women DO like sensitive men. Nevertheless, there’s a big difference between a sensitive man and a weak man. Let her feel that she can rely on you, that you’re always on top of the situation but you can listen to her problems and maybe even help her out sometimes.
GOOD LOOKS. You don’t have to be Brad Pitt to be considered good-looking. What matters most is the way you let her understand that you take care of yourself. A clean and tidy person will most likely have a clean and tidy relationship.
PUNCTUALITY. Men are NEVER allowed to be late while women HAVE to show up a little late, so the man knows she is still to be conquered. More than that, it is the woman’s way of letting you know she was preparing herself to look her best for you. You should never come up with excuses for being late, even if they might be true. Any excuse is just as pathetic as the next one, so if you think you can’t make it in time simply let her know with some time in advance.
The list could go on and on, but the idea behind everything is the same: always be yourself, treat her as your equal and understand her as a human being and not as a good catch. Women always sense these things even if you don’t say them out loud.